David Hekkanen

David Edward Hekkanen, age 77 of Chesterfield since 1976, passed away on January 26, 2025. Dave was born on September 9, 1947 in Detroit, Michigan to John (Ed) and Alice (nee Curotte) Hekkanen. Beloved husband of the late Denise. Loving father of Deanna (Michael) Girard, Renee (Matthew) Williams and Michelle (Kevin) Kolath. Dear grandfather of his namesake David (Brianna), Taylor, Dylan, Trevor, Ezra and great grandfather of Julian. Dave was predeceased by his parents and his sister, Trudy (Ron) Ballard. Dave was a true American hero. Drafted into the Army on his 18th birthday, he served in the Vietnam war. He was awarded a Bronze Star (with a V for Valor) for bravery above and beyond the call of duty because he moved through enemy fire to successfully rescue fellow wounded soldiers and bring them to safety. After sustaining gunshot wounds to his head and arm, Dave was also awarded a Purple Heart. He freely shared his Vietnam experience, and he especially captivated his grandkids with the incredible circumstances he faced and overcame. On December 28, 1966, while on Army leave, Dave married the love of his life, Denise, in Detroit, Michigan. Together, they enjoyed 54 years of true love and devotion to each other, their three daughters, and their grandchildren. Dave always enjoyed spending time with Denise, especially their trips to Las Vegas and the Motor City Casino. The love Dave poured into his wife and daughters created a beautiful family dynamic filled with togetherness and support. Dave was always focused on the most important parts of life and although he loved to talk and tell stories, he was also an incredible listener who left everyone feeling validated and encouraged. He often offered a gentle reminder that most issues are “minor” and that “life goes by in the blink of an eye.” Dave found true joy in his grandchildren and great grandson. As their number one fan and an avid lover of sports, he attended many of their sporting events and encouraged each of them in all their endeavors. Dave's love extended to close friends and extended family. He built special bonds beginning in his early years in Detroit and on the Kahnawake reservation through his adult years in the neighborhood, at work, the golf course, and at the bowling alley. He treasured these friendships, which lasted decades. In the latest years of his life, Dave persisted through lung challenges. His doctor called him his "miracle patient." He met every obstacle with a positive attitude and a will to move forward, which allowed him to spend so much quality time with his family and friends. Dave's family is forever grateful for his love, devotion and constant support. There is comfort in knowing that he has joined Denise, who he has so dearly missed, in heaven. A military service at Great Lakes National Cemetery is planned for a later date and information will be shared when available. The family welcomes donations to the Disabled American Veterans organization as an expression of sympathy.

David Hekkanen

September 9, 1947 - January 26, 2025